Parenting Tips: 6 Important Things Parents Should Try and Do For Their Child/Children

Parenting is one SPECIAL role in life as it can simply be put as the foundation that which plays a big part in the life of the future generation (the kids). It is a role every parents need to play well so as to secure the future of their young ones likewise themselves.
      On this post, i would like to talk about 6 handy and easy parenting tips that i believe would be helpful for Parents out there and also help the children.


6 Parenting Skills/Tips Every Parents Should Endeavor To Have/Do


1. Love -  This should be the first and foremost in not only Parenting, but also other aspects of Relationship. Showing Love in this case is not all about Money, its about sincere caring and letting them know they matter to you.
   By showing love to your kids, they would be able to have full confidence in you and also boost their self-esteem.


2. Provide Needs - Giving birth to a baby doesn't makes you a Responsible Parent but Providing the basic needs for them. It baffles me when some parents said 'he can take of himself' to their child whom is not yet independent.
   Although this can be true in some cases but not all cases. You have to build your child to a certain level before he/she can become independent.


3. Make yourself available -
Because of the No #2 i mentioned above, most parents have to engage themselves in a Job that pays well. Sometimes the job especially that of the man ends up consuming lots of time thus making it hard for the man to spend time with his family.
     However it is still possible to create quality time and spend with your family especially the kids. Most children needs their parents to listen to their worries (See No #4 about Listening) and making yourself available for them is one of the best thing to them.







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4. Be a Good Listener and Observer - As a parent, Its one thing to be a listener and its another thing to be a GOOD listener. When discussing with your children and they're sharing their worries with you, do not listen for the sake of listening only but also to analyze their worries and also attempts to offer solution.
      Also be a good observer who knows when their child is feeling uneasy about something. This will help in building children's self esteem 





5. Parenting Plan, and Planning For Your Children's Future - What do you have in Stock for your Children's 's future? Are you someone who believe things will work out themselves or you are someone who plans ahead?
    Prepare your child for the future and also the future for your child.


6. Integrate them to larger society -
Sooner or later, your child will need to become part of the larger society apart from the immediate family before becoming independent. Whilst they would have to do lots of things on their own, it would be easier and faster to help them.
     Integrate your child to the larger society but before then, try to guide them so they won't fall into the wrong hands.

Lastly, i want to use this moment to commend the efforts of all Responsible Parents out there.
  Kudos!



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... Maybe Its Just a Blessing in Disguise

I've been away on this blog like FOREVER, though that word FOREVER, is an exaggeration cos i've not been away for that so long;) But the thing is; whenever i couldn't publish a post on time, i feel like i've away for so very very long.
Yet my main reason for not publishing a post on time is not because i have writers' block or something, but my mobile phone device which i used for my blogging activities recently stopped working with the Blogger Platform.

In order to continue publishing post, i had to create a new option which was having to draft a post on my phone and copy it to my facebook notes. And whenever am on a connected PC, i would move the post from facebook to Blogger post-editor and continue there.

During this period, i still use the mobile phone device to do blogposts promotion on social networks, replying 'n' sending mails, and some other things but i still hated every single moment i was unable to use the Blogger Post-editor on the phone. Although the phone bug made me become smarter (by forcing me to think of another method) but it still make things more complicated and also does take a lot of time before i could publish a single post:/
That made me COMPLAIN A LOT about what i do not have and thus, forgot to BE THANKFUL for what i already had.

Then something later happened and that changed my perspection about nature.




After some times in which the bug occurred, my mobile phone device suddenly stopped working (i talked about how it happened on this post likewise how it was fixed) and i couldn't use the phone for DAYS! Additionally, What added salt to the injury was that; it was during the week that i was expecting some calls that the phone stopped working.
THERE i LEARNT my FIRST LIFE LESSON that

"Thou should be thankful for what you have,
instead of complainning a lot about what you do not have"


When my mobile phone device went out of action completely and i couldn't call, send text and some other things, i then realized 'HALF A LOAF, IS BETTER THAN NONE' *winks*
However the Good News is; I was also been able to come up with New ideas about blogging in which am sure if the device didn't act up like that, i MIGHT not able to come up with those ideas.


I'll be stopping right here and i hope you guys grab something from my recent life lesson. Feel free to leave me a comment and If you have a moment, i would also love to hear from you about your recent life lesson via the comment box below!
Stay blessed!

UPDATE - I've now gotten a new device
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My First Love Story 4 (After High School)

The time was 9 in the morning at a large city from the Western Part of Africa. Birds nearby, were whistling happily from different locations and children of different age were also seen playing around as it was their 3rd term holiday.
A young boy in his late teen came out through the backyard of an house painted in blue. He stretched his hand and began brushing his teeth. From his action, one could deduce the fact that he had just woken up from sleep.
The boy finished brushing and was about to turn back to enter the house when a woman came from inside the house and hand a mobile phone to him.




'Your phone was ringing but it stopped before i came here' the woman said

'Thank you Mum' Abbey said and collects the phone from her.


Holding the toothbrush in his right hand, Abbey uses his left hand to press his phone in order to check the missed call, in which it turns out to be his childhood friend 'Oyinda'. He was short of mobile airtime then, so he dial the shortcode for (borrowing airtime) so he can call her back asap. Upon receiving the credit, he dialed her number


'Hello Oyinda'

'How are you Abbey?

'Am fine. I missed your call on my phone and...'

'Yeah, i just wanted to say hello to you as its been a while we talked last'

'Thats true and i was already thinking that after am through with brushing my Teeth, i should borrow airtime and call your number'

'Really? That means our mind works together! '

'hahaha! Of course! Ehm... I guess you must have checked your O level result?'

'Yes i had, since the result has been announced to be officially out. Its even part of what i wanted to tell you when i called '

'So whats the score?'

'I made all the required papers, with 2 distinctions and the remainning Credits!'

'Wow! Thats fantastic! You need to celebrate this for me oo'

'Celebration? I hope you knew am not yet a working class, still an aspiring student'

'Just joking though, but whatever sha, you still will celebrate it for me'

'Okay, i've heard you. So how about yours? Am sure you're going to have at least 6 distinctions'

'I haven't checked mine though, currently short of funds to buy the scratch card but in 3days time, i ought to have gotten it'

'Alright but pls inform me whenever you check. I will also have you in mind but just in case, i might forget, please call me'

'Okay friend. And how is Mummy and dadd.....'


Computer Voice: Your account balance is low, please load a recharge card



Abbey ends the call after finding out that his borrowed credit had exhausted. He went back inside to prepare for shower and go meet his friend for the new job they recently found - marketing.
After being through in dressing up and eating the Jollof rice breakfast prepared by his mother, he was about to leave house when his friend showed up.


'You know we're almost late?' Abeeb said

'Sorry pal, i slept late yesterday and the penalty for it is my waking up late this morning' Abbey replied

'Alright. Lets go sha before the manager runs out of patience'

'Yeah, thats true!'

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The two friends walked to a building which is like a few blocks from Abbey's house. When they got there, they met 2 young boys and 3 girls like in their late teens and busy loading goods at the back of a Bus.
Abeeb walked up to one of the girl and asked about the manager. The girl whose name is Dammy replied him that he's discussing with assistant manager inside.

'I hope no problem?' Abbey said

'There is ooo. The manager just dismissed 3 people among us who got low sales yesterday.' Dammy replied

'Eeewo! Thank God we haven't come earlier, am double sure me and Abeeb would have been among them cos we also got low sales yesterday'

'Really?' Dammy asked

'ehn now. And it was just that yesterday oo, before we used to...'


'Why are you just coming now Abbey and Abeeb?' The manager said coming out from the house

'Sir! we are, i mean i...' Abbey tried to find the right words to explain the reason for his lateness but he was cut off words

'Don't bother to explain. I believe your colleagues must have informed you about those we dismissed? Am imploring you the others that you should try your best and make good sales'

'Okay sir' All the boys and girls replied in chorus


'I hope you're through with the loading of the goods.' The assistant manager asked

'Yes sir, all done' One of the boys replied

'Alright, lets get moving then' The assistant manager said


.......................................
CHAPTER 4 ENDS



MORAL

Sometimes what we sees as an unpleasant thing,
might actually be a blessing in disguise
(as in the case of Abbey's lateness)

What other lessons do you learn in this chapter, comment here or feel free to send it to my mail at tuhamworld@gmail.com.

PREVIOUSLY => My First Love Story 3 (High School)
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Which One Would You Choose? || Good Sense Of Humour OR a Cool Nice Voice

Sometimes we tend to like someone because of something we see in them or rather, the quality we believe they possess. Now lets take a closer look into the personality of having a nice voice and sense of humour.
As a Man, would you prefer having sense of humour over that of a Nice Voice?
And if you're a Woman, would you rather like having a man possessing sense of humour than the latter?

This question was what i saw on a popular Q and A's sites in which i couldn't stop myself from thinking on expantiating, and how to post it on this blog.

[Did You Dislike Something About Your Partner? Then Read this

When i read the contents of the post, i found some answers in which some said 'they prefer a man with sense of humour', while another group said they'd like a man with a very nice voice.
But from my own perspective, i think both are cool and if a man possess the two, then he's really really LUCKY! ;)

However while each of this personality had their advantages, there is still a side-effects attached to them. Below, i would mentioned the Pros and Cons of the two in General, and also in Relationship.

For A Man Who Had A Sense of Humour Over Cool Nice Voice

The Pros: Generally, this personality makes the man to be liked by many because of the way he puts smiles on people's face during convo. (you can check my own funny convo here.
And in Relationship, i guess his future partner would hardly had boring moments whenever she's around him. Isn't that true?

The Cons: If the man gets TOO EXTREME with his humour, people might not take him serious even at the moment he's trying to be frank.
And in Relationship, the funny thing is; if a quote which says 'Girls Fall in Love with what they hear' is TRUE, then because of his *uncool and unnice voice*, majority of girls might not completely like talking to him on phone or via anything involving his voice.

For A Man With Cool Nice Voice Over Sense of Humour

The Pros: Generally, people are going to love hearing his voice or talking with him on phone. If he's talented, he might successfully built a music career.
And in Relationship, his Partner would like hearing his cool nice voice over, and over again;)

The Cons: Generally, his Nice Voice might eventually bored people if sense of humour is not involved.
And in Relationship, i once came across a post on the internet which a woman said "She's not feeling okay with her partner not having sense of humour"

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As for me ooh, am humorous but i think my voice is somehow little manly. Lots of people that'd talked with me on phone said they did love the Unique Voice probably i would have changed it;)
Wait, you doubt if a voice could be changed? Well, I think it can:)

Now Over to you, Which one do you like between the two? I would like to hear from you
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My First Podcast + Important Life Lessons

Did you just read the Post title? I finally did my First Podcast! | Not that am new to the Podcast of a thing Concept but me doing it especially at this moment, IS A REALLY REALLY LITTLE BIG THING (In Iris West's Voice as seen in The Flash Movie). In this post, i'm going to tell you what makes my podcast special and the life lesson you too can learn from what i just did.

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Incase you're wondering What is a Podcast? A Podcast is simply a digital audio available on the internet for download usually in series. There are different topics people usually perform podcast on, like Darren Rowse of Problogger.Net whom usually did his Podcast in form of Blogging Tips.
The podcast i did was about TWB latest short-story which is My First Love Story Series although i've only done the podcast for that of the Story Intro. (see link at the last paragraph).

What Made My First Podcast Special

  • Let me describe my feelings in 3 steps - *. You know that kind of feeling a baby feels when he took his first step after crawling for a long time? <= I was excited to take the NEW STEP.
    *. That kind of feeling you get when you had your first mobile phone, <= I was Curious.
    *. The Kind of feeling a mother gets when she had her first child, <= I feel light-hearted after bearing the thought in my mind for a long time.

    Even though i've been aware about what a Podcast is, since a while, i was reluctant (or should i say timid) to try it. Then recently, i decides to take a bold step and JUST DO IT!

What My First Podcast Taught Me

  • BEFORE I DECIDED TO DO IT, I was waiting for THE RIGHT TIME, - A TIME i'd have my PC to make necessary changes on the Podcast, A TIME i would be ready to do the Voice Recording, A TIME that i won't be faced with any Distraction, but the truth is; Waiting for THAT TIME would be like waiting forever simply because;

    - I can't predict THE TIME i would get a PC, so why the wait. Why not just Do it Now using the available means!
    - There is no time that i can't get distracted, i just need to be determined and focus on what i wanted to do.

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Life Lesson You Can Learn About Me+My First Podcast => Is there something you'd really wished to start but you're feeling reluctant because of certain reasons like making Mistakes, Not being Good enough, Distractions, etcetera. Well am telling you that, If your reasons are more or less feeble like mine, then you should do it!
You might made mistake at first but laugh over it and work towards improving, as time goes on, you'll soon learn how todo it the right way.

As a matter of fact, I did the Podcast using my phone which is an Amr format (the lowest quality a sound could have), after which i now did use an online method to increase the quality of the sound which turns it into mp3.
If you listen to voice over on the clip, you would know its my Baby-Steps Podcast *covers face* but i sure did take a leap of faith! As time goes on, i hope to improve.

You too can do it. Remember the one sure way to build your self-confidence is to STOP THINKING and START ACTING! So i dare you to take a bold step and work towards achieving your dream.
If you want to download my first podcast, Goto the Post Here and scroll to the last paragraph.

Is there something you also recently attempt in which you haven't done before? Kindly share with me, i would really really love to know.
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Simple Stretching Exercises You Can Do For Flexibility

Previously on this blog, we talked about the importance of stretching exercises and in which the post gave enough and strong reason why one should include stretching exercises in his/her daily routine. Because of that, we'll be looking at some simple stretching exercises which one can do for flexibility and also to stay in good shape.

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From going to the office, doing housechores, managing a blog, selling products physically, cooking foods, and etcetera | It is an undeniable fact that everyday, we involved in different activities that requires enough physical energy.

This is why its very important to keep our body machine in healthy and good shape and even though there are different ways which one can use to stay healthy like the steps here, i'll be focusing majorly on the stretching exercises on this post.

According to a source, keeping muscles flexible helps maintain joints ability to move freely, OTHERWISE if they aren't stretched, they might become less flexible and cause certain adverse effects. Below are just 2 Stretching Exercises that i believe is very simple and can be done by anyone.

2 Simple Stretching Exercises For Flexibility and Good Shape

  1. Brisk Walking - Jogging would have been a better alternative for this but i discover certain people do not like Jogging because of majorly two reasons. 1. Some people find jogging a little bit hard whilst 2. Some find it awkward jogging in their neighbourhood.
    If you belong to either of these two categories, you can replace Brisk Walking with Jogging instead of not doing anything at all. According to [Precious Nkeih of PreciousCore.Com], Walking Up and Down helps a lot in staying energized. You too should give it a Try!
  2. Eye Stretching Exercises - You wonder if there is something really like eye exercise? Of course there is! Especially for people who work for a long period of time on a computer, this exercise is going to be really helpful. Now the question is how do one perform an eye exercise? Well, here is it;
    *. When you notice you've been fixing your eye for a long time at a particular spot, simply Try to look at a far distance without moving your head.

    You can also learn more about additional eye-health tips for computer users HERE.

And there goes the 2 Do-It-Yourself Simple Stretching Exercises for Flexibility. I know there are lots of stretching exercises one can do but i thought of sharing just this few, so as not to feel overwhelm.
But you can also add to this post by sharing any other simple stretching exercise you know, or that which you normally do, using the comment box below.
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